Sex can quickly become boring or predictable. It requires time, energy and commitments to keep things interesting. Here are the tips to have a thrilling sex.

1. Romance: Romance is a key ingredient to have a great sex life. Buy small gifts to each other, make unexpected phone calls, write love notes and engage in frequent, non sexual physical contact.

2. Focus more on sensuality than sexuality: Sex is not only about penetration. To increase sex drive or desire massage each other or take turns kissing each other from head to toe. You can test yourself how long you can hold out before penetration takes place.

3. Experiment: You must be willing to experiment to spice up your sex life and keep it interesting. It is important to discuss your needs with one another and to express your feelings about what you are comfortable with.

4. Atmosphere is important: Focus on alternatives to traditional sexual penetration such as erotic massage, oral sex and mutual masturbation. Forget about goal-driven penetration and orgasms.

5. Sexual positions: A new sexual position is a simple way to pep your sex life up. Experiment with different positions to enjoy a pleasurable sex life.